Last night I got mildly frustrated watching the #kidlitchat about diversity on Twitter and posted a string of tweets of my own:
I get tired of hearing people say they want to read books where the characters “just happen” to be LGBT/people of color/disabled/etc.
But that they don’t want the book to be “about” that aspect of the character’s life.
As though any good YA novels are only about one single aspect of a character’s life.
As though it’s possible to write a good YA book about a character and not address a major aspect of that character’s identity.
Now, I understand where people are coming from when they say they want to read more books about characters who “just happen” to fall into these categories. I too certainly would like to see more diversity across the board among all YA characters. What I don’t understand is what YA books people have been reading thus far that are actually guilty of being only “about” the main character’s “other”-ness, whether that be race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, or something else.
I’ve seen this line of argument come up in many chats that touch on diversity issues, and it was said over and over during the #YAlitchat that centered on LGBT fiction a while back, too.
Where is this epidemic of books that are only about this one aspect of the main character’s life? I’ve never read one. At least not one written above picture book level. Am I just supremely lucky in that I have avoided all these bad books?
I feel the same way when I see complaints about coming out books ― accusations that books about coming out focus on too narrow a part of a LGBT character’s life. Every book I’ve ever read that had a coming out story at its center has had a ton of other stuff going on, too, from family issues to friend complications to relationship drama to a desperate desire to go to a Kylie Minogue concert.
The one case I can think of where I have seen a focus on a single aspect of an “other” character’s identity is in the stock Gay Best Friend character. You know, stories with a straight protagonist whose best friend comes out to them halfway through the book, and the straight protagonist is the first person they’ve told. From then on, all conversations between this character and the straight protagonist focus on this character’s gayness, and the whole thing serves as a device to further the character growth of the straight protagonist. Yes, that trope, I’m tired of. So I wonder if some of these complaints stem from that trend ― which actually has nothing to do with LGBT books, at least not the ones I’ve read. I would like to read more LGBT secondary characters who are there to serve the plot in ways other than by inspiring the protagonist through their courage, or whatever. I’m thinking now, for example, of Darlene from Boy Meets Boy, who is not so much the token trans character as she is a gossip who can’t keep her opinions to herself and who orchestrates our two titular boys’ makeup scene.
But the Gay Best Friend cliché doesn’t explain the complaints that refer to characters of color, though. I’ve certainly never read a book about a person of color where that entire book was “about” the character’s race or ethnicity. Yet from these chats, you’d think there were scores of them.
If you’re writing the book well, your characters ― all of them ― will be multifaceted. Their race, background, sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, religion, nationality, gender, and other factors will be among those facets, as will their sense of humor, their relationships with family members, their attitudes toward their school and their friends and their community, and everything else that makes up their lives.
But the thing is, unless the character lives in an alternate universe where the “other” aspect of their identity really is a complete non-issue (like in How to Ditch Your Fairy or Ash) then if you’re writing a realistic story about the character, sooner or later, that aspect of their life is going to come up. Maybe it doesn’t get much screen time, but it’s there. Think of the scene in Dramarama when Demi, the best friend character, tells Sadye, “I’m black. Don’t tell me you hadn’t noticed!” because she’s been tiptoeing around his race (and for that matter his sexual orientation) for the duration of their friendship. Sadye thought that by not mentioning it, she’s been doing him a favor, when really she’s just been doing herself a favor by avoiding having to think about the complicated stuff.
And yeah, sometimes a protagonist’s “other”-ness is so minor in their own perception that they forget it exists. The Explosionist is one of my favorite recent examples of this. Its main character has a disability which she mentions early on, then doesn’t mention for the next hundred-odd pages. So you, the reader, forget. Until she’s abruptly reminded, and so are you. Because eventually it does affect her life. She falls behind when she’s trying out outrun an adversary. Other people mention her limp, and it’s clear that they haven’t forgotten about it even if she has — and that wherever she goes, people notice. Her disability doesn’t define her life, or define her as a character, but it’s a part of her. She can’t ignore it. And as the story progresses, she, being very clever, thinks of ways to use it to her advantage.
And then there are books like Hero, which is about a kid discovering his superpowers and dealing with a complicated relationship with his dad. It’s also about a kid coming to terms with his gayness and making his first shot at a relationship. Does that mean the book is “about” his being gay? And then there’s Love & Lies: Marisol’s Story, which is about a girl looking for love, and sort of finding it; the fact that she’s gay has no impact on her love life, aside from the fact that her partners are women. There’s a secondary character dealing with coming out issues, though. Does that put it in the category of being “about” gayness?
What about a book with a really strong “other”-ness-oriented plot, like The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian? That’s centered on the protagonist’s struggle with living in two cultures and among people of two different races. But it’s also about family and addiction and romance and basketball and bulimia and a government-sanctioned caste system. And it was considered sufficiently complex to win a billion awards and get itself on a billion critics’ lists.
Yes, sometimes a character’s “other”-ness really is the biggest thing in their life. But that doesn’t mean the story isn’t still complex. Right now, for Kurt on Glee (it always comes back to Glee with me), the fact that he likes boys really is the most important thing in his life. Partly because other people are making it that way by calling attention to it, and partly because right now he desperately, desperately wants to have a relationship with a boy. Because he’s a kid, and that’s his current reality. It doesn’t make him a less complex character, and it doesn’t mean there aren’t other things going on in his life, and it doesn’t mean the story itself is flawed.
Seriously, I’m racking my brain here trying to think of a YA book I’ve read that was “about” a protagonist’s “other”-ness, or where that aspect of a character’s identity was the lone trait that defined them. I’ve read my fair number of books, but I’m coming up empty.
Books, good books at least, aren’t like TV shows, where you can easily identify the A, B, and C plots of each episode because they’re only loosely strung together. That makes for good TV; your perspective shifts from scene to scene. But in books, things need to be interwoven. Each scene is accomplishing multiple things, and often addressing multiple plot threads. Whatever makes a character who they are will inevitably come out in the story. That’s just how characters work. It’s what they do. It’s what makes good stories good.
OK, rant over. *grin*
Jan 12, 2011 @ 10:10:11
What a great and thought provoking article, especially as a writer currently revising a book with a gay character and an mc of color. I hope that their Other-ness is indeed multifaceted and that is what I strove for.
Jan 13, 2011 @ 02:06:17
You are lucky, yes. You’ve avoided the online market, which is where most of those ridiculous stories are lurking.
However, I’m surprised to hear you had these conversations in a YA context. Having a YA book where a character “just happens” to be gay seems pretty weird to me, because that sort of adjustment usually doesn’t come until after university. It makes sense (to me) to have a book centred on a character’s sexuality because in one’s teen years, that really is the focus of identity and confusion for a lot of kids. Seeing that in a book wouldn’t faze me at all.
Where I have seen the OMG EVERYTHING IS GAYYYYYYY books is in books for adults, but written about teenagers. The sort of thing where there’s sex in every chapter, and everyone is either a-okay with gayness or a 100% bigoted assface, and the only problems the characters face are directly related to sexuality. Nearly every book I picked up from my random Amazon searches in high school ended up like this. You can tell them by the cover art; it’s almost always shirtless boys in jeans or shorts, usually with their heads cropped out so all you get is the torso region. Classeh. And like I mentioned earlier, the ebook market as well. I can’t tell you the last time I read a gay mystery story where the story contained more about the plot than the character’s sex life.
I dunno. I definitely have stories of my own where the character’s sexuality or ethnicity is more central to the plot, including coming out stories (happy and sad). On the other hand, I also have stories about gay characters in relationships whose problems are about paying bills and deciding if the kids go to church or not. In the case of the first, the characters are generally teenagers. In the second, they’re in their twenties or older.
Of course, I could be bonkers, and it could be that everyone in these chats just overreacts to any mention of sexuality at all. That wouldn’t surprise me. I’ve seen people scream and rave about the least bit of gay content in novels — someone actually said there was “too much gay” in the first two books of Lynn Flewelling’s Nightrunner series. Book 1 contains nothing at all, only a hint that one character used to be in love with another character, and book 2 has a very realistic, slow progression of feelings and realization culminating in a kiss at the very end.
Or they could be people who don’t mind reading about gay characters (or disabled characters, or people of colour) but don’t want to think about the difficulties people in these demographics face on a daily basis. They don’t want to read about the struggles and trials these people have to go through, because they’d rather think of the world as a Nice Happy Place. I’ve seen that, too.
As for the books “about” a person’s race — I took a class back in university on Black Women’s 20th Century Fiction, and I’d say at least half of those books were purely “about” race. I don’t remember their names anymore, only that pretty much everything screamed “ALL BLACK PEOPLE’S PROBLEMS COME FROM WHITE PEOPLE WHO ARE EVIL EXCEPT FOR BLACK PEOPLE WHO GET TOO WHITE AND THEN THEY’RE EVIL TOO”. I wanted to claw my eyes out. The other half, on the other hand, dealt with issues of race and gender, but within complex plots with interesting characters who had problems that both did and didn’t relate to their minorities. There was a definite divide between which stories I enjoyed and which irritated me.
For me, the line occurs when every problem in a character’s life stems from his race/disability/sexuality. That’s when I start thinking the author is unimaginative, and just has no idea what gay/black/deaf people are like — they can’t imagine them having problems like “normal” people. That was my issue with some of the books in that Black Women’s Lit class — one got the feeling that if there were no white men in the world, these characters would have rosy lives. Likewise, a lot of online gay stories or cheap gay romances have the same sort of issue.
But to accuse YA books of being “about” gay characters just seems really weird. Do the same people accuse the Princess Diaries of being “about” Mia’s heterosexuality? Hm.
Feb 23, 2011 @ 23:20:43
thank you SO MUCH for this post. I’m not sure why, but this whole “I want characters that just happen to be gay” (or another minority characteristic) sentiment seems like…I dunno, the trendy thing to say or something, and while I *get* the idea behind this sentiment, and I fully support the YA literary world being chock full of queer characters, I think it would be weird for a book about a gay teen to include absolutely no reflection on sexuality or to include ONLY reflection about sexuality!
when I hear people talk about this, it’s awkward–my upcoming book is a love story and a road trip story and a story about searching for meaning and for the freedom to be completely open and vulnerable with another person. it’s also the story of a girl who falls in love with a girl–and who isn’t completely sure she’s not also attracted to a boy. obviously she’s going to reflect on her identity at least a little, and part of that is how she’s going to present her sexuality to others…so then is my book automatically rejected by the people who are so sick of “coming out books” or who don’t want books that are about the issue?
more than characters who just happen to be minorities, I’d love to see minority characters who just happen to be complex, well-developed, and layered, like real people.
*steps down from soap box*
*continues stalking archives*
Feb 26, 2011 @ 08:05:03
Thank you! So glad to hear it resonated. I feel like this is something that gets said ALL THE TIME and it always blows me away that it doesn’t bother more people.
And your book sounds AWESOME btw. Can’t wait to read it in spring 2012!!!
Apr 26, 2011 @ 07:07:57
May 04, 2011 @ 21:47:32
I found this really interesting considering I have said that about books!
The thing is, to some extent there are books in YA that seem to be written only for the character’s gayness. The book that everyone would write if they had the first idea ‘a book about a gay character’ would probably be a book about them coming out and dealing with bullying. I don’t want every book I read to have the conflict and thought process mainly focused on sexuality. My sexuality is a part of me and causes conflicts, but if my life were a book, it would not be written like that.
We are being more than lucky enough to move away from it, though. While series like the Rainbow Boys helped me start reading, if that’s all that people published I’d be sick of it. Because that does in fact make sexuality the prime focus, if for the specific target audience’s benefit. Annie on my Mind focused heavily on the sexuality. out of the Pocket. The Vast Fields of Ordinary. Sure, they may not all be super heavy, but the fact remains that it is a conflict. These books obviously still have to be written, but the trouble is that people feel like they are the main ways to showcase an LGBTQ character. We need realistic books, but we also need books where they are solving mysteries or becoming vampires or traveling through time.
Luckily, we are moving towards books like ASH and anything written by Hayden Thorne (though she isn’t mainstream) or Patrick Ryan (who was awesome with sexuality in Gemini Bites.)
I think publishing is heading away from simple stereotypes though. I think that it’s not wrong to say we want characters who just happen to be gay. Because it’s true! It’s not saying we don’t want the thing out of the book entirely, but simply that we expect books that have more conflict. Where it ISN’T a conflict. Just another fact of life. Like the books where people just happen to be straight. That’s not a problem. Their sexuality pretty much fades into the background because it’s just who they are. It’s still present, but the character isn’t always thinking ‘Oh I am straight! I am doing straight things. I am having problems because I am straight.’ These are overly basic, but you get the idea.
I think it comes in from both sides. A lot of people say it without thinking about what it really means, but coming from a gay teen reader…it’s exactly what I want people to know. I don’t want my sexuality to be in the spotlight in every situation of my life. It’ll be there, sure, but I’d rather not be written like a character ruminating on it and its meaning and plight, ect. I live in real life and I don’t constantly feel the need to imply my thoughts to my sexuality.
At least, that’s what I mean when I say I want more characters who just happen to be gay. I can’t speak for the masses, though.
I’m just a little weird.
May 04, 2011 @ 22:11:04
I think the reason the “just happen to be” line bothers me so much is because so many people say it, especially about gay lit, without having ever actually read a book with a gay protagonist. Much less thought through seriously what they’re asking for. As you said. So, I think we’re on essentially the same page.
I agree that books like Ash, in which sexual orientation is simply not an issue at all, are essential. (Same for gender identity, although I haven’t read a book yet where that’s the case, except I guess some sci-fi like the Dawn series.) Someday I hope to try writing one myself. But for books set in our world, or worlds similar to our world, I think to a degree a book with an LGBT protagonist is “about” their LGBTness simply by virtue of that character’s engaging in a romance, experiencing discrimination or other side effects of “other”ness, etc — but usually it’s just one part of their lives. You brought up Rainbow Boys, which is an interesting example and the only book I’ve read that I would place in the category of being primarily about the characters’ LGBTness; other books it get compares to a lot, like Annie on My Mind and Geography Club are about coming out but I would argue that they have other strong themes — romance in one and coming of age / exploring of clique boundaries and social norms in the other. (The Vast Fields of Ordinary is still on my TBR shelf because I’m a bad person.)
I write books set more or less in the real world and my protags are always LGBT, so I use the premise of the book as the deciding factor on how their sexuality or gender identity will be treated — sometimes it’s a bigger factor in their lives than others. I think that’s all we really can do. I think if romance is a big part of the book, though, as it usually is with YA, and if it’s a same-sex romance, that’s going to be a big deal on some level (unless again it’s an alternate universe).
So I have now talked myself in circles and I still think we pretty much agree on everything, so I will just say, thanks for the comment, and glad you enjoyed the post.
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